today Gus and i watched horrible bosses in the theatres, which was good because it was quite funny, which is what i was hoping for anyway. but during the show there was one scene where the main guy basically seduces a woman, whom he knows is someone else's wife, and they sneak off to the bathroom. and the whole time i was thinking, no, no, no, don't do it. please. don't. don't do it. but they did and until now i feel so uncomfortable at the thought. it's the point i was making about how everywhere you turn there's some sort of infidelity going on and it's so prevalent that sometimes i think, there is not a single couple out there who hasn't gone through this. which is untrue, but an extremely large percentage of couples, i'm sure, have cheated on each other before. it's ridiculous, but it's scary. and so i hate when people treat it so lightly, as something funny, amusing or entertaining because it really isn't. it's become something of a triviality and it's honestly disheartening to see that because people don't respect the sanctity of two people committing to each other anymore. and if it's like this now, in the future how are our children going to live? in polygamous societies? brave new world-ish? it's just really really sad, and i really really hate it.